In my, Speak Life post, I urged everyone to consider the words they were speaking everyday! We discussed how our words had the power to uplift people and to crush their spirits! I also reviewed some practical methods in which we can Speak Life.
One notion we have yet to discuss, is: To Speak Life into others, we must first have life within ourselves!
Matthew 15:18, states, ” But the things that proceed out of the mouth come from the heart.”
One of my friends from this Seeking You community, mentioned in one of her comments, that she is part of a 30 day challenge. The radio is challenging listeners to listen to their station for 30 days.
I remember when I was about 18 years old, I decided to listen only to Christian music. I omitted all the other types of music. The results were astounding. It reconditioned my mind with positive thoughts. As they say, good in- good out and, unfortunately, garbage in-garbage out.
I became that person who saw the silver lining; a lot more positive and optimistic. There was a lot that I did not allow myself to take in. I was like a spiritual vegan (well maybe that was a little too cheesy, anywho…). If it contained negative lessons, I rejected it.
Hebrew 4:12 tells us, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” The word of God is Life!
I am, in no way stating that we must live in a bubble and only listen to Christian music. I do, however, believe we should assess the sources of our nutrition.
But How?
- Listen to music, words, messages that are positive in nature- what we listen to, has a tremendous impact on us.
- Learn verses that pertain to your struggle. For example if you struggle with negativity, search for verses of the bible that will help you combat those thoughts. If worry is your struggle, learn verses that addresses worries.
Then, every time a worrisome or negative thought presents itself, replace it with a verse from the bible. Jesus did that after he had finished fasting and the spirit led him to be tempted. Every time the enemy challenged His thoughts, he rebutted with a verse. Finally the Spirit left.
- Surround ourselves with people that are positive- This can be a tough one for some. “Well, Rose, I’ve known Betsy since High school…Its just that she has been going through so much. She’s a really a nice person. She just needs someone to talk to”; or “Sandra… Sandra is my cousin, she has done so much for me. I can’t abandon family.” We do not need to give up on them altogether. But we must not allow them to feed our spirits with negativity.
We must choose who and what we listen to- wisely!
Life is a journey. We are constantly working to improve who we are. Christianity does not mean that life becomes easier. We must continue to feed ourselves proper Spiritual nutrition to grow!
Let me know what you think. Agree or disagree, share your experiences, thoughts, or concerns. If there is a verse or song, in particular that helps you- please share.
I agree with you. The more I am surrounded by positive, the more positive I become.
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Oh Yes! That’s a hard but necessary pill to swallow. .. especially when it’s a loved one.
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So true and often times easier said then done but in order to receive God’s best we must monitor what we speak. Our words can’t always align with what we see for this is the opposite of Faith. Thanks for the reminder.
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Yes! Truthfully… my words is an area God is working with me on… I have improved a lot in this area though, so I’m thankful. Glad your found this helpful 🙂
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You are a very motivated and positive person, I know from your blog. If you have any tips, verses, books that you recommend- I’d love to hear it.
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Well I do sincerely thank you for those kind words but I can’t take credit. I really have graduated from the school of hard knocks! Lol! Life experiences that a are and have been heal by the Word of God. One of my favorite books is “Woman Thou Art Loosed” by Bishop TD Jakes and now his book entitled “Destiny” is speaking to me big time these days!! 😀
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I remember looking at that book, “Woman Thou Art Loosed” but never read it. I should check it out. Thank you for the suggestions! I’m sure it is awesome since he is a fantastic speaker.
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It is simply phenomenal!!!
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Ok- I’ll take that as a solid recommendation! Thanks
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I agree. As we think so we are. What we listen to is like the food we eat for life, and not all foods are healthy.
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Exactly! Do you have anything in particular that you find helpful in helping you stay positive? Especially in relationships -since that’s your area 🙂
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Yes, I have lots of them. I try to focus on my partner’s positive qualities, keeping in mind that we are not perfect. They drive me forward daily. I don’t suspect her in any way, and that has helped me to maintain the trust in our relationship because It sustains my confidence in interacting with her daily. Above all, I feel loved, not because she tells me daily how much she loves me but because I knew so from her actions.
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Those are beautiful suggestions. Many of us can benefit from putting them into practice. Choosing to trust and focusing on the positive ate very much essential. Thanks for sharing!
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You are welcome.
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I agree with you totally. Being a Christian is not supposed to be easy, We are called to follow Jesus. How many times was Jesus questioned, mocked and ridiculed and then stoned? Why do we even give it a second thought when it happens to us? Looking forward to follow your posts. God bless you and many times I sing: Trust and Obey when I am facing a challenge in my life.
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Preach! It’s so hard to come to grips with the reality that Life is tough- expect it! But when we look at it from that perspective, then we are able to move past it. As you said, if it happened to Jesus, then…. Thanks for sharing.
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This is so true, especially when it comes to people. Its not easy to distant yourself from people who are exuding positivity, especially when you’ve been around them for years. I’m actually struggling with that now. Great post!
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Thank you so much for sharing! I pray that God help you sorry out those details. I know it can be tough.
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Thank you
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Thank you for this post. You are right – we are strengthened by keeping positivity around us.
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You’re welcome! I’m thankful you found it helpful.
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You’re welcome! I’m thankful you found it helpful.
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Wonderful post. And it seems so timely for me. I’m reading Scribbling in the Sand: Christ and Creativity, by Michael Card. It’s amazing. He speaks about a few things you have touched on here. Plus, that infographic at the top… another blogger friend posted the same thing in one of her posts today.
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Really. I’m so happy you liked it! You can take that as confirmation. God bless you.
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And blessings to you too.
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This is beautiful TJ! I love worship music. (Hope is ok to call you that.) Thanks for the link.
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That’s what they call me. Great music.
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I agree!
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I’m sure others will enjoy this as well
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I know, right?
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